Proves my point gays are absolutely devoid of substance. Some gay men are reluctant to define themselves as top or bottom. Views Read Edit View history. Retrieved from " https: Retrieved September 24,
The joys of being versatile in bed As you might expect, the question sparked a flurry of replies, multiple of which suggested bringing toys into the equation.
I Went to a 'Tops' and 'Bottoms' Speed-Dating Event
Some people are versatile. If I wanted to sail with the boys on this gay Noah's ark, I had to maybe fib to myself a little. And the responsibility is on the top because he has to have an erection in order for sex to happen. The answer might surprise you. Although I have no plans to meet with any of the men from my speed-dating event, I'm glad I went.